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Reading aloud – the sound of a fantasy May 20, 2009

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Serendipity: A chance walk-in into a bookshop. A chance sight of more than one translation of Siddhartha. An impromptu reading aloud activity by two individuals to compare the translations. Moments of bliss.

Some pleasures in life have no substitute. Like reading aloud to someone with a receptive mind. Or being read aloud by someone with a perceptive mind. I have lost count of how many times I have fantasized about this activity. And once in a while somebody would oblige me, like the other day when we read aloud passages from Siddhartha. I could try write an eulogy on the act of reading aloud, but the below excerpt from The New York Times expresses my thoughts better than I could possibly imagine.

“But listening aloud, valuable as it is, isn’t the same as reading aloud. Both require a great deal of attention. Both are good ways to learn something important about the rhythms of language. But one of the most basic tests of comprehension is to ask someone to read aloud from a book. It reveals far more than whether the reader understands the words. It reveals how far into the words — and the pattern of the words — the reader really sees.

Reading aloud recaptures the physicality of words. To read with your lungs and diaphragm, with your tongue and lips, is very different than reading with your eyes alone. The language becomes a part of the body, which is why there is always a curious tenderness, almost an erotic quality, in those 18th-  and 19th-century literary scenes where a book is being read aloud in mixed company. The words are not mere words. They are the breath and mind, perhaps even the soul, of the person who is reading.”

Some Thoughts on the Lost Art of Reading Aloud

 

The Reader of our Times May 16, 2009

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Some weeks ago I was introduced to the Times Reader, a utility that gets the top stories from The New York Times to your screen. For FREE. I am usually wary of new technology on the block and reserve my time to trying out only those technologies that are accompanied by compelling reasons (read significant improvement in quality and experience). Like, I am yet to try Twitter. I am not eager to tell the world every thought and action that constitutes my life. At the same time, I blog because I find it gratifying to share my distilled thoughts with the world.

I tried the Times Reader without a second thought. Coming from a publication as venerable as The New York Times, it had to be good, right? And boy, good it is! Now the goodness is not entirely an attribute of the technology (the reader software). A large part of the goodness comes from the sheer standard of writing. That is a double whammy and I love it. Exactly what I meant when I was saying “significant improvement in quality and experience”. The improvement in quality comes from the superlative standard of journalism. The improvement in experience is that I get the news wherever I am, colour pictures and all, and the text on the screen is easy to read, and feels like the print edition. I am still on version 1.1.3, while the latest available version is 2.0, because my friend, Deepanjan, posted this article.

But that should not deter you from trying it out. You will need to download and install the software to enjoy the technology. But if you are hesitating wondering whether it will be worth it, here are links to three stories I read today. It is no doubt a matter of personal opinion, but I find the writing perfectly marinated with hard facts, brevity, and cogency.

What Does Your Credit-Card Company Know About You?
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/17/magazine/17credit-t.html

My Personal Credit Crisis
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/17/magazine/17foreclosure-t.html

Suze Orman Is Having a Moment
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/17/magazine/17orman-t.html

Another honourble mention is the Newsmap website which does data mining of all the news out there to give you the most published news stories. The stories are logically organized into sections such as World, National, Business, technology and colour coded for quick browsing.

 

Tea off at par friendships May 15, 2009

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I am an avid tea drinker. Not that I drink gallons of it, just that I cherish each sip. A well brewed cup of tea (and that rules out any tea made by a machine) can do wonders to my mood. I can get almost intoxicated.

And tea has led to many a memorable conversation with family, friends, and strangers. Once in a while, it plays a larger role and a whole friendship is built around it. That is what happened between me and The Patels who live on the floor above. Keta and Baiju Patel had moved to Raleigh a few weeks before I did and they immediately welcomed me into their lives. Baiju is an avid tea person. And Keta is almost a no tea person and yet her tea is worth every moment spent with the cup. 

Keta and Baiju, Fall 2008

Keta and Baiju, Fall 2008

 We would meet often for tea and talk. Recently, Keta went on an India trip for a marriage and during that six odd weeks, Baiju and I met almost every day for tea. Every day at 10 pm. It was something I would look forward to with enthusiasm. Our meeting would be short and yet packed with useful conversation. Baiju was here for a MS in Advanced Analytics and I was taking introductory courses in Statistics; so there was quite a lot of common ground for techie stuff to be discussed. Like today, Baiju educated me on “basket analysis”, something stores like Wal-mart and Family Dollar conduct to find the chain of products a particular shopper would buy. In very simple terms, which buyer will have what products (typically) in his/her shopping basket. And I led Baiju to some outdoor educational videos at REI. So, in that short 15-20 minutes, we had tea and came out better informed about something useful. And at the end of the meeting I would be refreshed and eager to get back to work. Tea plus conversation has that effect on me.

But, this is now coming to an end. The Patels are moving to Charlotte, where Baiju landed a job. I will miss the tea meetings terribly. And by the end of this summer, I will lose almost half of my closest friend circle at NC State. This makes me kind of sad. I take this opportunity to thank The Patels for opening the doors to their house and their hearts. I am wealthier having known you’ll. Bon voyage!

 

My Muse May 11, 2009

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My muse says her stay is over
And before sunrise she must be away
To her house across green fields of clover
Where merry winds make her golden hair sway

 

She shops the way I shop May 8, 2009

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Now, I have a million eccentricities. Fortunately, I am aware of these and so, my friends are spared their pain and horror most of the time. Most of the time. Of these queer personality traits, the way I shop is amongst the most developed.

And how do I shop? For starters, you wouldn’t want to accompany me. I am just so freaking choosy I can drive people mad. I could spend an entire evening trying to find a garment that fits me exactly the way I think it should. To prove my point, I have my own unique description of what constitutes a good fit. A good fitting garment is one which touches your body in the zones/areas where you enjoy being touched and does not touch your body in the zones/areas where you do not enjoy being touched. If this sounds nonsense to you, I would totally understand. And not just garments, I bring a whole new level of complexity to shopping for anything. Yes ANYTHING. It could be a pack of blank CDs, pencils, shoes, milk (!), ok you get the point. Like I said, the way I shop is a highly developed eccentricity.

And I have wondered how it would be to meet someone who shops the way I shop.

Now I know. Because the other day I went shopping with a friend and she was literally a copy-paste of me when it came to shopping. We spent hours trying to find a dress for her. And she had already spent hours the day before. And we had a final exam the next day. I couldn’t have cared less. Not when I was looking at a marvel – someone who shops the way I shop.